Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Can Do!




The Can Do Attitude- Do you have it!

It seems to me that one of the strengths of America has always been the can do attitude of nearly every American. Our forefathers had it! Have we lost it? Do you have it? Does our government have it?

I know if it were not for my Fathers can do attitude he would have never survived moving from Montana to Seattle, when he was young and orphaned, to enter into the world of trees and logs. He always found a way to survive, making his way from the forest trenches and outrageously big saws to a manager of a very successful timber business. He knew that hard work, determination, creativity, and a positive can do attitude would get him to his goals. I was always impressed when we sat down at my drafting table to discuss the next addition to the mill. He would describe what he thought would work and I would draw it. Often the mechanics in the mill would say it could never be done, or it won’t work. But always my father would figure out a way to get it done and make it successful. I’m sure my five siblings would agree that this attitude has been passed on and we all look for ways to get it done, no matter what the task may be. 

I just started reading a book called “That Used To Be Us” by Thomas L. Friedman and Michael Mandelbaum. I came across this book via the Book Channel, often on in our house as my wife likes to listen to the authors talking about their books. As I listened I downloaded (Google Play, “play books” app) the book to my tablet, and I began to read. I’m not too far along, but already I say, yes they have identified the issues….one of the very first quotes is from the CEO of GE, Jeffery Immelt, “What we lack in the US Today is the confidence that is generated by solving on big, hard problem-together”. It seems we have so many opinions and directions that it is difficult for us to unite and support a common goal, or to focus on a problem and solve it. There is such a large gap in the two party system that we can’t seem to get past the arguments and get to the answers. Finger pointing does not work, but it seems that this is the most popular thing to do. I have voted in nearly every election for the past forty years and I have listened to presidential candidate after presidential candidate tell us what they will do to make our lives better and America stronger. I agree with the Authors, as time slips away, Americas resources are disappearing. We need to understand that we have urgent issues… education, deficits and debt, energy and climate change and I would add what I would consider the most important issue, the disintegration of the family structure. These are not issues that the government can really make happen under the current structure of doing nothing, of pointing fingers and being protective of the next reelection campaign or better yet voting to not support any initiative that the other party brings to the floor.   As the Authors say  “Our goal should not be merely to solve America’s debt and deficit problems….the goal is for America to remain a great country….Immigration, education, and sensible regulation are traditional ingredients of the American formula for greatness”. America has a hard time getting things done! We don’t need to emulate anyone, we have superior thinkers, creative minds, and inventive abilities that are far greater than any other country in the world. The challenge is to get everyone to keep their focus on getting America to the next level of greatness, can we do it? As individuals we can only move the government so far, and we do this by voting and electing those representatives that can make a difference, are collaborative and can make this country great! The government needs to unite, get behind a drive for greatness, grab on to the can do attitude of our forefathers and get it done! The government needs to MOVE ON, get past this phase of disgusting finger pointing and work for us, the can doers of America!

Some of us learn the can do attitude from our parents, and some of us are born with amazing can do attitudes. I came across this marvelous story of a young enterprising kid in Los Angeles, California…he definitely has the can do spirit! We all need to follow his lead, be creative, spark the nation, and help support the whole not just a few….(just click on this link you will be taken to a web site) Caine's Arcade

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

A Keeper!





Good friends are like stars.... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there. Keep them close!

A good buddy of mine sent this to me in response to several of my recent BLOGs about Moving On. I think it is a great story and at the end you can see how you measure up to some very important key life questions….

I grew up with practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed aluminum foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen, before they had a name for it... A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones.

Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived barely a wave away..

I can see them now, Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower in one hand, and dish-towel in the other. It was the time for fixing things.. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress. Things we keep.

It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy.. All that re-fixing, eating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.

But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.

Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return.. So... while we have it..... it's best we love it.... and care for it... and fix it when it's broken......... and heal it when it's sick.

This is true for marriage....... and old cars...... and children with bad report cards..... and dogs with bad hips.... and aging parents...... and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it. Some things we keep. Like a best friend that moved away or a classmate we grew up with.

There are just some things that make life important, like people we know who are special........ and so, we keep them close!

I received this from someone who thinks I am a 'keeper', so I've sent it to the people I think of in the same way... Now it's your turn to send this to those people that are "keepers" in your life. Good friends are like stars.... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there. Keep them close!

TEN THINGS GOD WON'T ASK ON THAT DAY.

1.... God won't ask what kind of car you drove. He'll ask how many people you drove who didn't have transportation..

2.... God won't ask the square footage of your house, He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

3.... God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet, He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

4.... God won't ask what your highest salary was. He'll ask if you compromised your character to obtain it.

5.... God won't ask what your job title was. He'll ask if you performed your job to the best of your ability.

6.... God won't ask how many friends you had. He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.
7... God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived, He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

8.... God won't ask about the color of your skin, He'll ask about the content of your character.

9.... God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation. He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven, and not to the gates of Hell.

10... God won't have to ask how many people you forwarded this to, He already knows your decision.

Thanks Ed! You are a Keeper!